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Being a working mother and a working single parent instills in you a sense of determination
We ask what is a single mother or who is called a single mother? Is she a woman with much strength and love or pain and fear?
Could she be a woman of much style and grace? There are many questions regarding how a working mother and a working single parent can manage all the things punctually?
One thing is that no one can understand what a single mother is until and unless they experience the same feeling themselves. A single mother is a woman who is no more dependent on her husband or her family or her relatives to fulfill her needs... she is the one who is filled with everlasting, unconditional love, and words of wisdom to guide the way through life.
A single mother doesn't receive much credit today because she dedicates her life to working long hard hours and making time in her busy schedule to take care of her children and family and what is hers. She goes through life trying so hard to do her best for her child, yet sometimes she feels what society will go to think about her. Some people around her with traditional standards always seem to say, " How dare she bear a child alone with no husband!" They don't understand the concept that life doesn't always turn out the way we planned. We don't always get what we want. RIGHT?
Although, she has no financial support because she is not dependent on anyone anymore. She had struggled a lot to put food on her table and a roof over her family's head. The only thing that keeps her family well is her and her love. What she is now it's because of her determination, hard work, loyalty, and the most important thing have faith in herself. Someone said that "The pain you're feeling today will be replaced with the STRENGTH you need tomorrow" also, the pain you feel is building a stronger you. A stronger body, a stronger mind, and a stronger person.
Very judgmental people stare at the single mother walks by with her beautiful little girl for whom she has sacrificed her life. She puts all of her wants and needs aside for the happiness of her child. I still wear the clothes of her choice.
Thoughts of not having a father became an issue from time to time, but today I wouldn't change it for the world! She taught me how to disregard my fears, and she calmed my cries by showing me that life goes on. She told me "You have to accept what has gone wrong, just forget about it and move on."
Every single child deserves to have a mom and a dad! but in my case, you were the only one who made an effort. You were the one who is a father and a mother too for me and you never let me feel bad about not having my dad with us.
Thanks to you, to my mother, to my hero, to my warrior, I never craved a father’s love because you made sure that you gave enough all by yourself. And today, I want to thank you for everything you did for me. Thank you for wiping away the tears from my eyes every time. Thank you for always telling me that I am special and unique just the way I am.
Now, I understand that you loved me even when I didn’t love myself.
Thank you for cheering me up. I can’t imagine how hard it was for you to raise me when you had to work just to provide me with the things I love.
Mumma, I know that you are getting old now, so please let me protect you. Let me be the wall you can lean on every time you feel like you are going to fall.
Let me take care of you like you took care of me when I was a child. Let me show you that you also have someone you can rely on when times get rough. Let me spend some time with you.
So here’s to not only my mom but all the mom out there who is selfless, compassionate, loving, and inspiring single mom.
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